Shifting into 3 at 3000 rpms how to adjust

Ok, thanks for taking the time to explain, I understand now.
The other gears I believe may shift ok but winter is just getting over here so I really don’t have much seat time in the car since I bought just before winter.

No problem, and just remember the more throttle you give it, the later and firmer the shift will be.
So keep that in mind on your test drives.
Once you like how it shifts at normal driving, you will need to pay some attention to how it does at higher throttles.