Best manual transmission additive

You have bearings going out, and no additive is going to help.
Since it's first and second mostly that tells me that it may very well be the rear shaft bearing, but the longer it goes without being taken care of the more it's going to destroy.

Sorry for the scary story, but that's what happens.

That bearing isn't all that hard to change if that's what it is.

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