How big of a jerk am I? Or are you?

No, but was wondering the same thing.
Seems like it boils down to no liking the way one guy did his job..:drama:
Well, I guess we're allowed to agree to disagree. I'm not here to ruffle any feathers or argue. I asked opinions and you gave yours. I appreciate EVERYONES opinion here and, of course, you're allowed to oppose mine.
I could do without being called a drama queen, but hey, it's a free website. You're free to call me whatever you want. Seems unnecessary to me but it's no skin off my back.
And no, I didn't like they way this dude did his job or treated my property or disregarded his instructions, but again, that's just my opinion.
And lastly, if helping out a family member makes me someone who's asking for it or a drama queen or whatever, then so be it. I'd help her out again, in a heartbeat.
I just thought it was interesting how people react to these situations. Nothing more or less.