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Go read the article at MAD:

Catalog

Even if you don't do that mod, it points up some of the problems with the bulkhead connector

Then "if you dont" wander over to MyMopar and download a free factory service manual.

So far as getting the terminals out, the male ends have a tang on the side, you squeeze them with small needle nose, or pry gently with a small screwdriver. The female ends have a tang you can release with a small screwdriver

Those are known as "Packard 56" terminals