Thank you all, I didn't expect such a response so soon.
Yeah, when the old man passed in October, we got quite the surprise. I knew mom was a bit off before, but holy hell, it was just a little fraying around the edges. We had been telling the folks for a few years since Grandma died that they needed to set up a trust. (Grandpa set Grandma up fairly well.) They never did, so after Dad (actually Step-Dad, long story) passed, my sister and I had to get mom set up with a trust. We also made doctor appointments for her and had to take her to those, all the while hoping the doctor actually didn't declare her incompetent.
Yeah, I pulled dad's guns the day he passed, they're in my safe. I don't have to worry about the stove, it's electric and the ol broad doesn't cook, anyway. There's a shitload more, but I don't really want to bleed out here. It sort of came to a head last Thursday and there is a neighbor couple pulling some shennanigans. That part has me worried.
