Stop in for a cup of coffee

Some people can’t be taught...until they are ready.

Until then, just make it clear that you are ready...whenever she is...but on your terms.

Sometimes the baby bird needs to feel the fear of being eaten by the predators before they realize they need more skills than they have.

Other times, they just become prey...having learned nothing.

And all we can do is watch.

I don't envy you guys, parenting is tough. My best friend has 3 kids, they give him all kinds of trouble and make some heartbreaking bad choices.