How to properly remove dampener bolt?

Maybe we could get a member in his area to help? I mean this with all the respect possible......but if you cannot get the balancer off after all this time, what makes you think you can do the rest? It's a serious question. I mean no offense at all. None of us knows how to do everything, but removing a balancer is an easy process......and the first main thing you have to do for this job and yet here you are.

I am almost certain there's a member in your area. Maybe post in general and ask to see if someone might could come over and give you a hand? I am sure if you threw some food and beer at them they'd be happy to. You could learn something and get a new friend in the process.
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