Good places to retire? Sorry-long

Considering our options. Loved living in Lyons for the past 25 years, but it’s kind of turned into little Boulder. Lost it’s small town feel. And since the flood 4 years ago now, the town has spent all its fema money on turning the town into a tourist attraction. While ignoring the needs of the residents. Boulder county has gotten so built up and so expensive.

Anyway my wife has made several trips to Oregon to visit her dying father, I went with her once. She’s kinda loving it up there because of all the wildlife , the cheap cost of buying a house, and way way way fewer people there. We could buy a nice house with an acre or two up there very cheap compared to where we are now.
So now she keeps talking about moving there in a couple years when I retire. Only thing I’m worried about is I read online that during Dec, Jan, and February it doesn’t get above freezing during the day, and can be 20below at night.! The town we’re looking at(Lakeview) is so small there isn’t even one restaurant you’ve ever heard of, only little cafes and such. Closest town big enough to have a Walmart or sams club and decent restaurants would be about 1-1/2hr drive away. Just not sure I could handle that much isolation and the winter temps.
Need some other ideas before we settle on Oregon.
I'm a long way off from retirement, but I plan on going somewhere that doesn't get snow. I hate winter, love the heat
To you two guys and everyone else that are thinking of about of state move, google friendly retirement states. Ones that don’t tax you pension. Low state taxes and research the weather.

I’m doing what someone suggested, follow the wife. Happy wife equals a happy life. She wants Florida to be near her daughter and I can’t really argue that much. I’ll be trading the hell of winter for the hell of summer.

Maybe I’ll get lucky at lotto one day and afford a House way up north. NH/Vermont.....