I am getting ready to do that right now, thanks for the advice... also.... I am feeling embarrassed right now.... after getting a couple hours of sleep and realizing I just put a lot of personal **** out in the public... I am a very private person, very.... I don't even have a facebook page(real one with MY name) fake one with my dads name and don't have family or friends on it... just use for the group pages... like i said - I basically never ever ask for help and usually refuse offers of help..... to wake up to the realization - I spewed my guts out last night...embarrassing and humbling