update... they both home... she will be having baby soon, just not yet... she over due... my son hates hospitals and got released.. he got home and tried to stay busy doing stuff(like making up for lost time, I dont know) but stumbled a couple times and still doesnt seem quite right... memory still not all there, but doing better and too darn stuborn to slow down,,,, thanks for all the help and prayers... it says a lot about you folks and means a lot to me and them.... thank you all
