When it rains it - poor's - any ideas????????Help

UPDATE - She hasn't had the baby YET.... Just found out last night how my son got released... he asked his wife - what questions did the doctor ask me before, the ones that I couldn't answer correctly.... she told him... then he said.. ok now what are they again this time tell me the right answer I'm supposed to say... month day and year and stuff like that... he memorized the answers just to go home... his head still hurts... he still not right but he to stubborn to listen... also found out how he fell and landed... at top of ladder, in a hurry, missed his step when stepping from ladder to roof missed putting his foot on the roof... fell backwards and hit his head on the ladder and went thump thump thump hitting his head on every rung of the ladder going down until close to bottom when something caught and spun him around hitting his hip and head.... and he has had 4 concussions before this one in his 23 years of life, 3 from football and one from a car accident...

feels good when you can see the good qualities in your son and see the similarities between him and his dad..... but then when you see the stubbornness and the lack of listening to reasoning and the just do it my own way kind of attitude..... I don't like to see that, especially when I know where it comes from, I used to think it was ok to be like that, now that I can see my stubbornness in him.... I am starting to question many things now.... don't none of you guys repeat this... I proly deny it ok.... but.... maybe I should listen to my wife more and do what she tells me... like goto doctor and stuff like that