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Alaskan_TA said

Sadly, a lot of boys & men also disrespect girls & women.

There are several examples of it throughout this thread.

I rarely post in this thread because of it.

I know men can be ugly & shallow & they are not the type of people I want to hang out with - so I do not.

No girl or woman wants to be harassed, abused or disrespected.

Even doing it in jest 'with pals' leads to a group mentality that many seem to adopt & accept.

It is not acceptable.

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A lot of what you say may be true, but I know many of the folks here personally and while they may joke around “boys being boys” none of them would ever harm a woman. In fact, I never felt my wife and daughter were safer than when they were all staying in my home during a get-together...and so did the women.

I know every one of them would fight with a vengeance to protect them if it came to it.

There is a vast difference between joking around and being sexually silly and assaulting women actively.

This group just jokes around, but they have massive respect and content of character when it comes to the difference between being silly and reality. I would trust every one of them to have my back when the chips are down...and protect my family.

You need to gain a new perspective and understand the folks here. Life isn’t black and white and you aren’t the mighty defender of women...nor does evil live here.