Voltage Regulator Problem??

Did you get your relay to where it will actuate? That's the first step. You do that by hooking terminal 85 on the relay to ground, battery negative. And terminal 86 to 12 volts from ignition switch. Then it will click. Nothing else can happen until you get that relay to click. Get a voltmeter or test light to confirm you are getting 12 volts to terminal 86