No one is perfect but you don't need to lie....

In that case I dont think your a dick at all if you agreed an a payment date the 1st time and he didnt come thru its fair game it's still for sale. But you was nice enough to give him a second chance and he still didnt come thru....I'm sorry buyer you snooze you loose!! Period! You had have right to sell it to someone else imo!
I'm about to buy a steering wheel from a member that says he doesnt have paypal and wants a money order. I have only used paypal and I'm wary of any other way. How hard is it to sign up, not very.... so I'm torn to give up on it and spare myself any problems.