No one is perfect but you don't need to lie....

Then there’s the buyers who claim, “I want the item”, and you box it up, send them the total with shipping, and never hear from them again. I have an area in my shop where I keep those boxes up items, and there are many. Yes, many from members here!
I have effed up on this when the wife drained the rest of the account after bidding/negotiating. Happened last paycheck, the first one after deployment. She sometimes operates like she's the only one on the account (because I was gone for a few months).