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I have thought of doing the same thing many times but I have never had to do it. From the outside you needed to do it for your proper accounting of funds. I know many married couples with separate accounts of a similar nature. If you made a mistake (I said if) it was in not telling her up front and letting the dice fly high. Sometimes we just have to tell them how it is and not let them vote. At my stage of life I have informed my bride of 52 years that I may make some unilateral decisions that she doesn't like or agree with but I really don't care. The issue for me is how I use the resources I have left in the time I have left.