Want to pose a question

If she did that your reaction would be "Great idea!"
relationships are not a 2 way street. Men shrug things off and women hold grudges.
Just apologize and tell her you didnt realize it would matter to her , tell her men are idiots and you love her then take her to dinner...lol

You could also go over the account payments... I mean checks to the power company are different than checks to the motel 6 !