Want to pose a question

Mrs and I have both joint and separate checking and savings accounts. The bills are paid and there is food in the cupboards -and we have even managed to save some "rainy day" $$. (despite my spending on car and motorcycle related "needs") Nothing will come between a couple faster than $$ issues, you HAVE to be able to trust each other. I am lucky as hell, we both agreed on how the bills etc. would be handled from day one. @moparmat2000 you had to know it would be noticed - yep, you F'ed up not talking to her about it beforehand, but like toolmanmike said, once she see's how well it works it'll be fine - - - unless she has some ulterior motive or doesn't trust you.