Want to pose a question

Because she deposits money and only uses debit card for everything including $5 purchases, sometimes 25-30 purchases a week, then i have to try ro reconcile the checkbook weekly and make it jive, with no help whatsoever. When i do quedtion a purchase or debit i didnt make 9 times out of 10 she has not written it down and then an argument ensues over who did that pruchase or debit. I was done with that, because all i use it for is bills and gas in my car.
sounds like she needs to open her own account and keep track of her $$ and learn to manage it
Personally I think it's wrong. I know a lot of people do it know of days. But, I guess I'm old school my wife and I are on everything together. Properties,Cars,Bank Accounts, And so on.... If you are going to hide stuff or do things behind each others back then why be married.
to each their own - so what do you do if you want to buy her a gift?