Want to pose a question

Separate checking accounts here. Separate mortgages except the house we share. Have our own money to spend the way we want. I pay car and home owners insurances and car payments. She takes care of kids and house stuff. One joint USAA (best rates for everything) account for vacations and international trips. We were successful professionals before we got married so it didn’t make sense to have joint accounts. I guess all depends on where you are at in life when you get married in the first place.