Want to pose a question
Would that be concidered underhanded or sneaky.
As so with many opinions\polls the outcome is usually split pretty much even. But the OP had already made the decision and acted upon it, and now asking an opinion, “after the fact”. Almost sounds like he regretted making the choice, and now asking for help to circle the wagon train? The best opinion you can give someone is what they want to hear, even though we know that is not the way it should be. Advice giving usually doesn't work, and often completely backfires, this is why there is an overabundance of self help books.
Every morning I wake, hoping all my humanly functions are close to normal, sip my coffee eat my toast and open up this wondrous forum and read, sometimes I shake my head, and giggle deep inside. Much as we were kids eating our cold cereal and looking contently at the back of our cereal box. Only thing that comes to mind here is, “Silly Rabbit, Trix are for Kids”........