HELP - Cragar SS Lug Nut Washers Keep Crushing - Need Alternatives!

The rims are flat-faced though. The lug nuts fit tight in the holes so the wheels don't have nay play once all the lugnuts are started.
The bad part is with the washers becoming loose the wheels are able to move in the lug nut which at some point is going to cause wear to the rim and the lug nut. Have you mic’d the hole and lug nut to see what the clearance is?