HELP - Cragar SS Lug Nut Washers Keep Crushing - Need Alternatives!

I am thinking here you may have to find some "Mag Seat" type of lug nuts. The lug nuts do not have a taper, because of the shank the lug nut has to take up the slop. I cannot tell from your first photo, if your lug nut is tapered or not......
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