HELP - Cragar SS Lug Nut Washers Keep Crushing - Need Alternatives!

Ok, I see your problem here. Here are your wheels.

Cragar 08/61 S/S Super Sport Chrome Wheels 61C5754

Notice where it says it requires a 60* conical seat lug nut. That's why your washer is crushing into a 60* conical seat pattern, because that's what it's getting tightened into.

These are listed as the correct lug nut for your wheels.

Cragar Wheel Lug Nuts 27802B-4