HELP - Cragar SS Lug Nut Washers Keep Crushing - Need Alternatives!

I think it's just a piss-poor lugnut design. The washer should be built into the lugnut as a shoulder... like an ARP type of bolt. not 2 pieces that fight each other.
Basically like @Dicer said, "Mag Seat" type of lug nuts.

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