I DETEST OEM fog/ driving/ auxiliary/ flood/ lamps

I hate people who shine them at me and would never purposely do that to someone.......unless they fail to dim

My Dakota has OEM "in the bumper" driving/ fog lamps. They are typical modern crap. Plastic lenses which deteriorate, and the "pattern" seems to be more like a "tractor flood" than anything useful. These are small lamps. I could fabricate new mounts

Anyone have a "for sure" lamp in mind to put something there that will help fill in the headlamps without blinding traffic? Something with some actual engineering and a pattern?

I have been looking at a pair of fog/spot combination , led lights on ebay. Thinking about putting them in the bumper of my 2014 ram express.