Is It This Bad Elsewhere? How Do People Drive Where You Live?

Terrible here in Utah..
Stop signs are optional, just a quick look and keep going. Have seen parents teaching their kids to drive and have them roll on through. Right turn on red, no need to stop either. Speed limits.. don’t think we have one, 20 over in a 50 zone and 85 mph in the 70 mph zone is the norm. Texting and phones a big problem, lots of people staring at there laps while driving.
Not sure about any where else but traffic cops seem to be a thing of the past. Seems like minimal traffic enforcement these days and those caught were by an unmarked cops, not out on patrol, but commuting and pull someone for a bone head move.