I know how you feel and almost gave up myself. But thinks to all the help I had here I got it to work and it's great. I found also that trying to mount the bar with the shock brackets was not going to cut it, are you saying that you don't have the lower sway bar bracket's on your lower control arms? If not you may have to have someone fab up a pair for you. I have seen pictures of the sway bar bolt up to the L shape shock brackets but I don't know how that was done.