Welcome from North Dakota and please don't give up would like to see you drive that great looking car for the next 30 years.
You and me have a lot in common I was a fire fighter and worked in the ER at the hospital and drove ambulance as well as an EMT. Raised 8 kids by myself and happy to say I got 6 great boys and 2 beautiful girls.
Looks like your making your life count. Good job sir.