I want to strangle my kid. (No, not really strangle.. but a payback is in order!)

Why don't you adults grow up? First off this is a FOR A BODYS ONLY forums. Not a how to fix my stupid parenting. Bottom line ADHD is a fake diagnostic for a stupid parent, not the kid. There was none of this stupid **** when we were young. It's only a excuse to let a kid get away with ****. If they have school functions you can receive the school messages and relay them. Thought you said he had a job, let him pay for his own phone. The parents have ADHD so start taking your meds.