wood burning question

All depends on the wood. Dry like a popcorn fart and you will be loading it constantly.
Wet wood needs a hot fire,to shut it down to a slow burn, it will go out.
Air tight stoves are easily controlled, thermal control on the draft makes the most efficient use of the wood.
If electric is what you are using, you will find wood heat is going to be like a sauna.
A good seasoned and dry hardwood is your best choice.