coolant coming out of exhaust manifold bolt hole

The hole isn’t deep enough to run a set screw in, and get a bolt to proper depth also. Factory studs WILL work with headers, if you use the thick factory cup washer that was in that spot with the manifolds. I’ve done that with many cheap headers back in the day. I think I discovered how to make that work right after I pulled the end studs out to put headers on my 70 Duster in high school. At least it ain’t like a big block, where they All go into water!
Interesting I just tried to reuse my old studs with my TTI headers and ran out of thread with the cup washer. Maybe they were not factory studs? who knows?