It's like "false advertising", to the untrained mind. Nice to look at but I ain't buying it.
I think a lotta young men forget that the part of the woman you see, is only 1/4 of the woman, and probably the least important part. Of the four I mean,lol.
I figured out a long time ago,loving is a decision.
After I got past the lust of the flesh, I chose to love my wife. I had to. I made her a promise on our wedding day. So If I have to,a promise is a promise. It follows then, that might as well enjoy it.I mean "for as long as you both shall live" is a long time. Then the kids came along and I chose to love those little strangers. Love is just doing for others, what you would have them do for you, but without the thought of what can I get out of this. It's the next step up from kindness.
But it's sure nice if she happens to also be shapely.
And even nicer if close in intellectual prowess.
And infinitely nicer if you are both on the same spiritual level.
Even yesterdays jello still tastes nice and smells nice, and when you slap it, it has a nice jiggle to it.
