Lost money on a transaction

3 weeks is a long time to go with no contact
from the 3 guys that posted in your want add, one had 80 positive feedbacks, thats who i would have gone with (but that doesnt mean someone didnt PM you without posting in the want add)

since you paid with paypal, you got some recourse...provided you didnt misrepresent the payment as a gift
Speaking of which, I got a message from a member of B bodies that just got his Pay Pal refund from a sale gone bad from a member we have had issues with lately. He did not use friends and family. DO NOT USE FRIENDS AND FAMILY UNLESS YOU KNOW THE SELLER!