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Does it really matter what name I used? didn’t our dealgo well??
What’s your beef?

Yes it does matter because when you contacted me about the 4 speed hump under bigboy 68, you stated that you have never dealt with me before yet this after you sold me the bucket seats under superfart426, so that is a clear lie

That clearly shows your intent to use a new name to hide your soiled diapers of the past.

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Yes it does matter because when you contacted me about the 4 speed hump under bigboy 68, you stated that you have never dealt with me before yet this after you sold me the bucket seats under superfart426, so that is a clear lie

That clearly shows your intent to use a new name to hide your soiled diapers off the past.

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Rainy what would you like me to do to make it up to you I am truly sorry that I came off that way and spoke to you that way please tell me what you would like me to do to make it up to you
 
[Does it really matter what name I used? didn’t our dealgo well??
What’s your beef?

Yes it does matter dude. Its called honesty. Explain why you use multiple names and addresses to to do biz on fabo along with a inaccurate avatar location.
The forum is waiting for your response. Or it is what it is.[/QUOTE]
I have always used my correct address where I live that at the time. In the past two years I have moved three times .I just left my avatar the way it was but I will correct it now I used two different names because I did not want to be found out as when I was superdart426 I was banned from the site .I just wanted a new start to try to get what I need it for my projects .I I am on disability and that’s why I asked people if they can work with me until I get my check so I can get what I need but now I see that a lot of people are frowning on that so I will do my best to make things right with the people that I have aggravated on this site and to do better in the future if most of you don’t want to give me a fair chance that is totally up to you and I respect your right to that decision . I will do a lot better in the future if given the chance .
 
Everyone does deserve a second chance, however
When you created the name bigboy68, that was your second chance.

This was your time now in the past year or so to make it right but you didn't. So you are asking for a third, fourth, fifth, infinite chance??

Believe it or not, most of us knew it was you when bigboy 68 first appeared but we didn't say anything for the exact reason of giving you a second chance.

The way I see it, is you are out of diapers, they are all shitted.
 
Everyone does deserve a second chance, however
When you created the name bigboy68, that was your second chance.

This was your time now in the past year or so to make it right but you didn't. So you are asking for a third, fourth, fifth, infinite chance??

Believe it or not, most of us knew it was you when bigboy 68 first appeared but we didn't say anything for the exact reason of giving you a second chance.

The way I see it, is you are out of diapers, they are all shitted.
Well rainy at least I know where you stand and that’s fine I respect you for that like I said in my first post to you I am sorry for the way I spoke to you I had no right to do that or miss lead you and for that I’m sorry
 
Well Bob, here's my feelings on it. ....and I know you didn't ask, but you know I'm gonna tell you anyway. You've been unscrupulous in the past with malicious intent. You know you have. We know you have. But I love an underdog more than anybody and I believe in giving people second......or a 22nd chance. Whatever it takes. There's good in everybody.

Bob, you're a likeable sort. Remember all the times we just chatted on the phone for no tellin how long talkin about different builds and such we wanted to do? That was fun. I'm probably the last one you'd ever figure might defend you, but I will. If you're serious about all this........and I doubt it but I want you to be, this could be the best thing that's ever happened to you. But you're going to have to come slap clean. Including all your screen names, why you used them (we already know why, but you're gonna have to SAY IT) and be really sincere about wanting to change. That's gotta happen here. Or it's NOT gonna happen.

Don't take this the wrong way. You don't have to prove anything to ME. .......or anybody else really. It all begins and ends with you, Bob. You've had a lot of good input on this site before. You've done a lot of GOOD deals here.......that maybe you're not getting credit for. But because you've tainted it yourself, it's hard for people to see "what's good". Your feedback proves that you CAN deal right.

I'm all about giving you another chance. And if "I" am, then everybody else on here can too.......however reluctantly. Everybody likes a happy ending. You could make this one of the best, but it's all up to you. So far, I see a good start. I give you credit for that. I haven't come on here and said your apologies were half hearted or this and that......even though some are thinking it I'm sure. I'm not. I WANT to give you the benefit of the doubt. .....and I "just bet" that surprises you all to pieces.

Make us all proud, buddy. Deep down we ALL Want to believe in you.

Oh......and one more thing, FWIW. I couldn't give two flea craps about you flippin stuff. I've never cared about that and no one else should. That's the American way. Free enterprise and all that. Good for you if you can make 200 bucks profit on something. But know this. what you're flippin needs to be good quality. It was my understanding when I last knew you that you flipped parts to help you make a living. And that's cool. Lots of people do. Lots of people get all butthurt over it, too......but my opinion has always been build a bridge and get over it, because it's none of their business. Once a sale is made, that part is no longer the seller's. If the buyer bought it to flip, may he make a million off it. But may he make a million selling good, quality parts. Ask high and negotiate lower. That's always been your premise and there's nothing wrong with that. I've defended you on that before too, remember? If somebody wants something bad enough, they're going to buy it. BUT, when they pay your premium price, Bob, it NEEDS to be good quality and not a POS. That's just wrong, Bob and you know it.

We are all family here, Bob. .......and believe it or not, you're part of that family. Pull up your boot straps and start acting like it.
 
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It's nice to see BigBoy trying to make amends. Time will tell on that... actions speak louder than words and all that.
(slowly lowers pitchfork..)
 
Well Bob, here's my feelings on it. ....and I know you didn't ask, but you know I'm gonna tell you anyway. You've been unscrupulous in the past with malicious intent. You know you have. We know you have. But I love an underdog more than anybody and I believe in giving people second......or a 22nd chance. Whatever it takes. There's good in everybody.

Bob, you're a likeable sort. Remember all the times we just chatted on the phone for no tellin how long talkin about different builds and such we wanted to do? That was fun. I'm probably the last one you'd ever figure might defend you, but I will. If you're serious about all this........and I doubt it but I want you to be, this could be the best thing that's ever happened to you. But you're going to have to come slap clean. Including all your screen names, why you used them (we already know why, but you're gonna have to SAY IT) and be really sincere about wanting to change. That's gotta happen here. Or it's NOT gonna happen.

Don't take this the wrong way. You don't have to prove anything to ME. .......or anybody else really. It all begins and ends with you, Bob. You've had a lot of good input on this site before. You've done a lot of GOOD deals here.......that maybe you're not getting credit for. But because you've tainted it yourself, it's hard for people to see "what's good". Your feedback proves that you CAN deal right.

I'm all about giving you another chance. And if "I" am, then everybody else on here can too.......however reluctantly. Everybody likes a happy ending. You could make this one of the best, but it's all up to you. So far, I see a good start. I give you credit for that. I haven't come on here and said your apologies were half hearted or this and that......even though some are thinking it I'm sure. I'm not. I WANT to give you the benefit of the doubt. .....and I "just bet" that surprises you all to pieces.

Make us all proud, buddy. Deep down we ALL Want to believe in you.

Oh......and one more thing, FWIW. I couldn't give two flea craps about you flippin stuff. I've never cared about that and no one else should. That's the American way. Free enterprise and all that. Good for you if you can make 200 bucks profit on something. But know this. what you're flippin needs to be good quality. It was my understanding when I last knew you that you flipped parts to help you make a living. And that's cool. Lots of people do. Lots of people get all butthurt over it, too......but my opinion has always been build a bridge and get over it, because it's none of their business. Once a sale is made, that part is no longer the seller's. If the buyer bought it to flip, may he make a million off it. But may he make a million selling good, quality parts. Ask high and negotiate lower. That's always been your premise and there's nothing wrong with that. I've defended you on that before too, remember? If somebody wants something bad enough, they're going to buy it. BUT, when they pay your premium price, Bob, it NEEDS to be good quality and not a POS. That's just wrong, Bob and you know it.

We are all family here, Bob. .......and believe it or not, you're part of that family. Pull up your boot straps and start acting like it.
Thank you Rob for post posting this I really didn’t expect it coming from you I thought you really had hate for me maybe down the road we can talk on the phone again I miss talking to you about builds and engines and what’s the best thing to do maybe down the road we can talk again if you feel comfortable thanks again for the post from this Point forward things are going to change and I will do my part to the best of my abiltyto be a real part of this family
 
Thank you Rob for post posting this I really didn’t expect it coming from you I thought you really had hate for me maybe down the road we can talk on the phone again I miss talking to you about builds and engines and what’s the best thing to do maybe down the road we can talk again if you feel comfortable thanks again for the post from this Point forward things are going to change and I will do my part to the best of my abiltyto be a real part of this family

If you really mean it, Bob, I'm 100% on your side. And yes, maybe one day. But remember what I said needs to happen. That right there will be the REAL start my friend.
 
....oh and I saw you tag @blewbyu about those manifolds, because I went in there to tag him. Things like that are cool, Bob. You're trying to help others and that's a good thing. I thought that was cool. See, I pay attention to the good things, too. Now everybody else knows about it if they didn't.
 
Thank you!! @CudaChick1968 And Leanna I see that you liked my post I truly mean what I am saying I know that you’re never going to give me a chance again because of what happened but I want to say it again here in public because I truly mean it I am sorry for what happened between us that was a difficult time in my life and I didn’t always do the right thing and for that I am sorry and I’m sorry that things transpired between us You still are the best damn Powder coating in the world and I screwed that up and for that I am paying the price but in my heart I wish you all the best with your business and life and again I am truly sorry for what happened between us
 
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Leopard / Spots = change ?
Not Sure ? We will see . We can only hope. I am not one to throw stones , Lord knows all the wrong I have done in the past. It took AA getting Sober and MOPAR to clean my Act up.
If he makes it right ?
Damn Fine !
If Not , C ya !!!!!!!
 
Thank you!! And Leanna I see that you liked my post I truly mean what I am saying I know that you’re never going to give me a chance again because of what happened but I want to say it again here in public because I truly mean it I am sorry for what happened between us that was a difficult time in my life and I didn’t always do the right thing and for that I am sorry and I’m sorry that things transpired between us You still are the best damn Powder coating in the world and I screwed that up and for that I am paying the price but in my heart I wish you all the best with your business and life and again I am truly sorry for what happened between us

And here's another twist, Bob that not everybody knows. And I'm not going into great detail, because it's private stuff, BUT I know you have a lot of medical issues and take meds.......welcome to the club. I'm not blaming any of the bad deals on that, but I will say that either being off your meds or not having them right greatly effects how you react to people. I remember you going off on me several times and I could tell that there was something else going on. That's why I kept trying to be your friend, because I knew you, like me, had a lot of medical issues.

Again, not the cause of a lot of what happened, but certainly could explain some of it.
 
And here's another twist, Bob that not everybody knows. And I'm not going into great detail, because it's private stuff, BUT I know you have a lot of medical issues and take meds.......welcome to the club. I'm not blaming any of the bad deals on that, but I will say that either being off your meds or not having them right greatly effects how you react to people. I remember you going off on me several times and I could tell that there was something else going on. That's why I kept trying to be your friend, because I knew you, like me, had a lot of medical issues.

Again, not the cause of a lot of what happened, but certainly could explain some of it.
Very true back then they were experimenting with a lot of meds with me to get my depression and panic attacks under control my meds have now been regulated and I have been doing well for a little while now by little while I mean a few yearsThings have been going good I have a part-time job that I work two days a week to keep my mind busy and active it’s a job that I enjoy
 
Sad that this reality **** show shot needs to exist on a adult truly dedicated forum
Of what we are all about.
Please not make this a reality show

Got no time for it like most.
 
the only thing I am going to say is this, when a "buyer" , has made a decision to make up sad , sad sob story , a lie , a straight up bullshit poor me , I can't afford all that or whatever the hell other reason in order to decieve and create sympathy by the "seller" to get a price cut or even charity , only to turn around and take that very same item and FLIP IT for double triple or even quadruple what they paid for it , is a BONAFIDE PIECE OF ****. I have been a victim of that on this very site, but not by Bob , but by others, and I can't tell you how ******* mad that made me. that is why I will never sell on here again. I'm all about making a buck . but when you lie ,cheat and steal to get there, you need your *** beat. soak that in Bob, and remember that.
 
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I made it 64 years in this world without his love, I figure I can go the rest of the way without it. I don't need him in my life as I'm not a forgiving person.
 
I made it 64 years in this world without his love, I figure I can go the rest of the way without it. I don't need him in my life as I'm not a forgiving person.
Your loss really we had a few good dealings and you’re going to let one deal that I backed out of because I had a family member die which was my family issue and you’re going to hold that against me well that’s perfectly fine that you’re right I respect that and if you don’t need me I don’t need you have a good life
 
Sad that this reality **** show shot needs to exist on a adult truly dedicated forum
Of what we are all about.
Please not make this a reality show

Got no time for it like most.
I agree with you, I hate seeing **** like this on here. That said, I think it serves a purpose.. I'd like to know who not to deal with.
 
the only thing I am going to say is this, when a "buyer" , has made a decision to make up sad , sad sob story , a lie , a straight up bullshit poor me , I can't afford all that or whatever the hell other reason in order to decieve and create sympathy by the "seller" to get a price cut or even charity , only to turn around and take that very same item and FLIP IT for double triple or even quadruple what they paid for it , is a BONIFIDE PIECE OF ****. I have been a victim of that on this very site, but not by Bob , but by others, and I can't tell you how ******* mad that made me. that is why I will never sell on here again. I'm all about making a buck . but when you lie ,cheat and steal to get there, you need your *** beat. soak that in Bob, and remember that.
I agree with most of this.. if someone is playing that game. That said, I think %98 of the people on here are good people. Note, I have never bought or sold anything on here.. I don't have a ton of stuff to sell, and my current cash flow is severely lacking right now.. but I wouldn't hesitate to buy from someone on here that has been a member for a long time, with a lot of activity.
 
Agree Roy.
Made it 57 yrs myself. The last 10 losing mom,dad,wife,father in law, sister in law & two dogs.
Yet i’m here with issues of my own being who i am, which some may not like & that is no problem as i’m honest. Breach that on your end and I'm done with you.
 
I smell :bs_flag:honestly. I see this **** all the time with my chronic pain patients. It’s no different. Same line feeding. It’s just what you soft guys want to hear from these types (bigboy68). These kinds of people are masterful manipulators and have **** excuses all day long. Steering clear. Forgiveness and a million chances? Most of us should know better imo. Get real people and take off the blinders. :drama:
 
Its on us. That has been made clear. This thread has been an awesome job of self policing. Own a biz ya definitely understand. Well maybe not everyone. lol. As Wilfred Brimley famously said in
the Firm “ they pay me to be suspicious of people i shouldn't be suspicious of”
 
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