Lost my best friend yesterday

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Dartish

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Had to take our 13yo golden retriever in yesterday and and let him go to heaven. Found out 2 weeks ago his chest and abdomen we're full of masses. He acted normal, was always happy, and ate like a horse. The vet said he was showing no signs of stress or suffering but it was only a matter of time. Well just 2 weeks later he all of a sudden wouldn't eat ANYTHING and seemed to be breating heavy and just didn't seem happy. As much aswe wanted him to stick around, we weren't about to let him suffer. We sat up with him from 3 am until 730 when the vet opened. Feeding him ice cubes and talking to him. He seemed content and was still wagging his tail for us. This dog has been through several major surgeries, was on meds for siezure control,and always bounced right back, happier then ever. We could just tell he was ready to let go. Thanks to the vet and her staff for being so compassionate. After a sedative and they injected the medication, he went very peacefully in a matter of seconds. We sat with him for awhile gave him final kisses and goodbyes. Hardest thing I've ever done I think!!!! We're gonna miss you Jake!!!
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Sorry for the lost, they become part of the family. I dread the day I have to lose mine friend.
 
Sorry for your loss.

Our lab is nearing the edge too.
Her back end is going, and some days she looks like she is lost.
 
I'll look for some old pics I have when he was younger. Up until he was about 9, he'd come running everytiEV I fired up the dart and stand by the passenger door. He looked so proud riding around in that bucket seats with his head out the window
 
I'm not even sure (human) time heals the loss of our faithful friends. Good thing we will be with them again in "only a blink of an eye". Thank your creator for giving you such a great companion.

God Speed to your reward Jake....and when you get there, give Scruffs a nudge from me.
 
They are true companions, every time I have to bury one I swear I will not get another so that I do not have to endure that pain. It rips my heart out. Then after a bit I spy a small fur ball of some kind that needs a good home and next thing you know the process starts anew. lots of dog folks on FABO. Appears dogs and car guys just kind of go hand and hand.
Blessed Be
 
Sorry man. It's tough even though you know its time. Mine went about the same way, some sort of chow - golden mix - everything normal but slower, loss of appetite and then one morning just want not comfortable breathing or laying down.
 
Sorry for the loss. Leave no doubt that when you take your dog in to euthanize with its tail still wagging it is something that no words can convey. Did that myself a short while back and I will carry it to my grave..... It sux!

JW
 
I'm not a real emotional person in general. But I cried like a baby when he closed his eyes. Reading all the thoughts and prayers,and similar experiences from a bunch of people I've never met in person, has kinda renewed my faith in mankind, and is really weighing heavy on my heart. Seems we all have more in common that we love then just our mopars. Thanks so much to all of you, losing Jake was literally like losing a family member. Sad watching the cats and our yellow lab pup all looking around for their big old buddy. God bless all of you!!!!! Thanks again
 
I'm not a real emotional person in general. But I cried like a baby when he closed his eyes. Reading all the thoughts and prayers,and similar experiences from a bunch of people I've never met in person, has kinda renewed my faith in mankind, and is really weighing heavy on my heart. Seems we all have more in common that we love then just our mopars. Thanks so much to all of you, losing Jake was literally like losing a family member. Sad watching the cats and our yellow lab pup all looking around for their big old buddy. God bless all of you!!!!! Thanks again


No shame in crying for your dog. If you didn't cry, I'd think you really didn't care for the animal.

I always say these dogs and cats and whatever are just like family. People who don't understand that can't be trusted. They add so much to daily life you can't measure it.

When they are gone, there is a giant hole.

Godspeed Jake.
 
Alot of you know that giant emptiness there is when you walk in after work, and they aren't standing at the door smiling and wagging. That's gonna take awhile to get over I know
 
It does take time. Jakes memories will always run deep for you and family.
Still morning loss of my beloved pugger yoda last yr.
Finally have gotten to point i am ready to adopt again.
 
After dealing with dogs, horses, cattle, and (generally) barn cats, I admit to developing some strong feelings toward these creatures God us. Some pets I have developed stronger attachment to than others. Not to say they all did not fill a place in my heart. I lost 2 miniature dachshunds over two years ago and I can still shed tears thinking of them.
Having to put a pet down is the hardest thing in the world, but we know when it has to be done. Just doesn't make it any easier.
 
So sorry for your loss. Each time I have to say goodbye it gets harder.

I have a 13 year old Lab that is nearly ready to go. Trying to wait for my grandson to get back next Saturday before.
 
Our family condolences to our to you and your family. We're sorry for your loss.
Dogs are special. Both my wife and I are 'dog people' and lost our two "fur kids" midway through 2017. For months I would walk in the house after work and look for them where they always were to greet us when we returned home from being out.
Early in 2018 my wife recently rescued a "lap breed" and then I rescued a Rhodesian Ridgeback (our fourth) in October of 2018.
Always keep the good memories close to your heart. That's the way our loved ones live on with us forever until we're all able to meet again.

Jake is now in the "land of the slow squirrels" and waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....


Remember the great times and Jake will always be there with you.
 
Our family condolences to our to you and your family. We're sorry for your loss.
Dogs are special. Both my wife and I are 'dog people' and lost our two "fur kids" midway through 2017. For months I would walk in the house after work and look for them where they always were to greet us when we returned home from being out.
Early in 2018 my wife recently rescued a "lap breed" and then I rescued a Rhodesian Ridgeback (our fourth) in October of 2018.
Always keep the good memories close to your heart. That's the way our loved ones live on with us forever until we're all able to meet again.

Jake is now in the "land of the slow squirrels" and waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....


Remember the great times and Jake will always be there with you.
Thank you so much for that! Can't wait for Lori to get home and let her read it. Tears will flow again I'm sure, but not tears of sadness. Thanks my friend
 
Alot of you know that giant emptiness there is when you walk in after work, and they aren't standing at the door smiling and wagging. That's gonna take awhile to get over I know

Time will cease for us all.... Just like you I was destroyed from the last one and then something plucked me in the head reminding me all dogs would want to be with me and why waste time feeling sorry for myself when I did nothing wrong. It's that moment and not 24 hours later I got a new buddy...

Cherish your moments and remember your life will never be right without a four legged friend...

JW
 
My condolences, I know the emptiness you feel, my golden was with me for 17 years. He's been gone for number of years but I still miss him.
 
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