First thought..... You didn't say that in original post.
Second thought...... Leave her home.
But that is a "sexist" ,or whatever correct terminology, answer .
But my reply still holds merit.
When extra weight is put in / on a vehicle it causes said vehicle to "twist" creating loads on suspension mounting points that they do not " normally see".
Most. ( damn near all from the late 50's forward) Mopars are of unibody construction. Meaning no. SEPERATE frame.
It dosen't take much "flex" in the entire vehicle to create ..squeeks, leaks, etc.....
You have not stated if your car has 10,000 miles or 100,000 miles on it.
Is it a Southwest USA car ..or one from the Salty Northeast?
Those two do not even BARELY. scratch the surface of what your problem COULD potentially be.