What (who) Will I Become?

Just be glad you have gran kids. My daughter 42 lived with several pos, never married, no kids, only comes around when she needs something, yet to her I'm a pos. Two step daughters that I consider my own and who treat me better than my own. However the oldest(43) isn't married, does date an older guy(20 yrs), and no plans for marriage and kids. The youngest (37), married and can't have kids. So yeah, the wife and I wish we had some but doesn't look like that's going to happen.