Stop in for a cup of coffee

Here's a question for the masses that's on my head for a second about the Forum. Does anybody else notice that one of our very few female members can post something relatively for lack of better words stupid and the old white man's club just swoons....
You look on recent posts and some thread has 20 some likes in no time at all and if it's about nothing... ?
What it is is I'm part of the old white man's club LOL and I'm embarrassed for us...