Help Me Cool Down

IMHO, you answered your own question.

It will stay cool under boost but if it comes to a sudden stop and idles, temps climb

My assumption to what you have said is that while running at other than idle rpm it cools just fine.

had to run a underdrive crank pulley and that lowers my fan speed

Get the fan speed up.

I am not a fan of shrouds but if it is working at speed it is not blocking too much air flow,
Only change 1 thing at a time to see what the root cause of the problem is.

My gut is fan speed