I have not resolved it yet, I kind of gave up figuring I need to weld some tabs on after trying like 3-4 different end link combos. I have just been letting the sway bar hang out up there and hasn't caused me problems.
It will be interesting to compare back to back when I finally get it hooked up. I thought it would feel worse, but the 1.12 torsion bars and bilsteins are compensating well I guess. I can def feel the "disconnectedness" between the front wheels at times, but not constantly. I think this is the first car I have ever driven without a front sway haha...