oil pressure question

That could be normal, kind of depends on what the temp is and what your idle speed is and stuff like that. I've run a lot of engines on the dyno that held 70+ while cold but drop into the 20 range once the oil is hot.

If you really want to know what is going on stop asking questions on the internet and install a temp gauge in your oil pan. Then start taking notes. Write down the temp and the pressure and the engine speed for several different temps and speeds each time you drive the car. Once you have a good idea of how it is behaving then change the oil to a different viscosity and run the tests again. Do that three times and you'll be an expert. Then you can come back on the board and explain what is going on.
I was looking for possible directions to go. Wasn't really into becoming an oil expert. I would rather not have to add another gauge, weld bung in the oil pan, repeated oil changes, etc. I was just wondering if my situation means oil pump, or suck it up, and put in new bearings. Some of us are never going to be the engine builder you are( I mean that with deepest respect).