It's not often I go public with deep personal stuff...

Incredible story..... You must have the touch OP. None of us will ever know our destiny however from what I gathered from your story is you spent quality time and maybe not so much quantity time with him and nailed it. How lucky the both of you were to have went through the journey. Most people can't duplicate your actions or his results even though it all seems bittersweet because of his untimely death. If sux and ain't no 2 ways about it!

Sorry for your loss and you have much respect from this side of the keyboard.....

JW