Congratulations! Seeing your family picture reminds me of my younger days raising a family, you are right it's not easy and I'll add that I now see some hypocrisy in my advice in that, I'm 56 this December, most of my kids are grown so I DO have time now... both for the car and most importantly my family. So with that here's my amended advice... car's are our hobby, if there desire is there, the car will always be there whether it's today or 13 years from today!