Car won't crank, Guage lights flash, and how do I pull my starter?

Back in the day you could jump start a Mustang with a small 6' jumper wire and a screwdriver. No inside the car hood release. They had 1 relay coil terminal and an internal ground. Some time later they went with 2 relay coil terminals. I suppose you could use ign switch start on one terminal and neutral/park ground for the other terminal. However, this is a bad idea. The Furd solenoid is a high current device. The relay coil requires many amps which could fry the neutral/park switch.

Stay with the dependable Mopar set-up.

Sorry not true. ALL Ford 12V solenoids are what is known as "grounded base." You can not integrate a grounding safety switch with a Ford solenoid. The second terminal on a Ford is for the ignition bypass, and if you find one that is properly lettered, the relay coil will say "S" for 'start' or maybe 'solenoid' and the bypass will say "I" for ignition.