Car won't crank, Guage lights flash, and how do I pull my starter?

67dart; you are correct, sir. The 'I' terminal provides 12V to the ignition coil when starting the car. My mistake. I'll try to fix my post. In a move of desperation you could mount the Furd solenoid on a block of wood, mount the wood to the car [isolated], and run the neutral/park wire to the solenoid base bracket.

I made a remote control for a winch years ago. I used 4 Furd solenoids to do it. Works well.