Need advice and also a warning.

You are not taking action and you are not utilizing tools and resources at your disposal to rectify the situation.
haha, well, in all fairness I was trying to be patient with this guy, but I"m out of patience and that's why I came to the forum. I didn't know even where to start. I'm putting some of the advice from this discussion to use now. I didn't have any experience dealing with this kind of shady practices.