225 slant rebuild for more power

There are a several items on that list that have a poor benefit to cost ratio,,,
The Mallory distributor, no vacuum advance,, expensive,,
Just get a stock slant electronic distributor, re curve it as necessary, run a HEI ignition.

The replacement rods and pistons,, again a lot of expense, useful in an all out race engine. But lot of folks have ran turbo power boosted slants using stock rods and pistons without rod or piston issues.

head and main studs,, again all out race engine stuff

are just a few of them.
I agree with keeping your first build basic,
Raise compression, basic bowl work, new timing chain and bearings,,,,

I agree with all of your points as well. The oil pump just stuck out to me, not because of cost, but because that's a major weak link for the slant six. Using the high volume oil pump greatly increases the possibility of camshaft gear and or oil pump gear failure. It's just not a great idea.