Public apology
I agree with almost everything here.
I don't get offended very easy, It's not easy being in a hobby dominated by the opposite sex and getting through auto school with a bunch of jerks, builds thick skin.
I do feel bad if I think I hurt someone else. The times I have been mean to others (it's happened) I felt bad later and felt like an ***. I don't see that as being a snowflake to feel bad for others but it just happens.
I also think 4spdragtop is a decent person, I have bought parts from him before and he was a lot of fun on the site over the years.