Quick home electric question

I'm not an electrician, and maybe one on here will verify this. How big is your generator. Unless it's pretty big, (20-30K) I wouldn't even try to run it that way. I've known of people wiring too small of a generator to their breaker box, and burned out compressors on freezers and refrigerators, etc, (My ex father in law did this) For example if you've got a 5K-10K generator, it won't run your whole house. It will take almost 5K just to run a water heater, if it's electric.
Right now, it's a 7k, I intend to return it for a 9-12k version

I dont need to run the entire house, but I have things on different levels I want to run, gas furnace, gas powered water heater, sump pumps, a few LED lights and the fridge
Easy enough to isolate those circuits and only use them

If it were just me, I'd pitch a tent and camp out, but between my youngest and my mother in law, we got an age range living in our house from under 2 to over 70